One gains table scraps or less, when he refuses to risk either much, or nothing at all. Seriously though, OP:
You don't have to visit nightclubs to meet women, great... Hell, I don't frequent such venues now that I've essentially aged out of them, and wasn't even a fan in my teens and 20s. Point remains though, a fella's dating and mating pool will be shallower than Herschel Walker's grasp of nuclear physics, if he confines himself to bowling alleys(No diss: I enjoy this particular activity myself)and D&D cons
If the company of high-quality individuals is what you're in the market for, you'll have to meet them wherever they're located