Random thoughts this thread conjured up-
Take pictures. I have noticed I always think a girl is hotter in person than in photos. Maybe its brain chemistry or just that typically photos make everyone look worse...but, the next day, that 9 you swooning over, aint so 9 anymore....AT ALL. The very few that pass the "picture in the morning" test, might actually be as hot as you think.
Id smash a 5. Sh!t I pretty much dated one for a long time. But now, my greatest fear is not anyone finding out, or feeling icky or desperate the next day, or feeling like I lowered my standards...MY greatest fear is catching an STD or getting an uglier chick pregnant. Its shallow, I know, but if it happens with a very hot girl...well, at least there is that.
Having said that, shortly after I came to SS, I decided 8's or better, no matter what. I spent enough time in my life with slowly degrading hotness, that I would work on myself and my game enough to only burn my energies and efforts on hotter woman. This mindset worked pretty well in fact. I did pretty good keeping that rule with a pretty tight deviation curve. BUT!!!!.... Its true what they say about the hot/crazy scale. The better looking they get, the harder it is to be with them. They are crazier, more disrespectful, and flakier, the hotter they are. Especially if you are dating up, or they think they are dating down. No matter really how you act, its just generally more difficult from hello to goodbye, no matter how long that is. And if hello is easy, than watch out, cause goodbye could ruin you.
I have recently loosened my standards a little bit in search of easy. It, has also worked. They are indeed easier and life is more pleasant. However, I feel more in perpetual search mode, for hotter.
So I am thinking, 8 is great, that a good number to settle into.H B- all day.
Also true- The lower the SMV the better at sex. They know they need to compensate. They are also better at massages and cooking.
Body or face?....I still cant decide. Anybody?
6 but young, or 8 but old?
9, but 4 inches taller than you?
Of course we all say we approached a 7-8 because that's what we all see ourselves as, in spite of reality.
Also, no one really "approaches" a 6 or less, they are just "there". I dont go to the grocery store and ponder over ketchup, I just purchase it. I know where it is, I put it in my basket, and I take it home. When I am out of ketchup I buy more.
I think we all just want 1 SMV point higher than ourselves. You know what too, thats what I see in almost every relationship I have ever seen or can think of. One person always has the juice, and the other, has the squeeze.
The lowest I would go is a 5, but I really dont think that will ever happen again.
