"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how long until I NEXT her!?

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zemaj

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long story short. we never met. only facebook and txt. (mutual friend setting us up). we was supposed to meet yesterday, but she flaked bcoz she had to work late. (she did mention this possibility b4hand, and it was a busy day in town bcoz of an event)...

anyways, I left it saying I'd let her pick a day to reschedule....she responded well and said she'd let me know asap....

Ive had a few beers tonight, and I'm facing the realisation she probably wont contact me again...I just hate the way girls always seem cool as cucumbers, whilst the guys are left stressing...maybe its cos im desperate...but honestly, although never meeting her, this chick seems great...so this really could bring me down :cuss:

rant over
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jay Dee

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Focus on more than one bird, man, until you make it.
Then when one drops off, you won't notice that much.
Have your hobbies as well to keep your time even more occupied.
 
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A PERSON U NEVER MET STOOD U UP................no sure if this qulaifies
 
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