"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how long until I NEXT her!?

zemaj

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long story short. we never met. only facebook and txt. (mutual friend setting us up). we was supposed to meet yesterday, but she flaked bcoz she had to work late. (she did mention this possibility b4hand, and it was a busy day in town bcoz of an event)...

anyways, I left it saying I'd let her pick a day to reschedule....she responded well and said she'd let me know asap....

Ive had a few beers tonight, and I'm facing the realisation she probably wont contact me again...I just hate the way girls always seem cool as cucumbers, whilst the guys are left stressing...maybe its cos im desperate...but honestly, although never meeting her, this chick seems great...so this really could bring me down :cuss:

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jay Dee

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Focus on more than one bird, man, until you make it.
Then when one drops off, you won't notice that much.
Have your hobbies as well to keep your time even more occupied.
 

COD

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A PERSON U NEVER MET STOOD U UP................no sure if this qulaifies
 
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