"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how long until I NEXT her!?

zemaj

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long story short. we never met. only facebook and txt. (mutual friend setting us up). we was supposed to meet yesterday, but she flaked bcoz she had to work late. (she did mention this possibility b4hand, and it was a busy day in town bcoz of an event)...

anyways, I left it saying I'd let her pick a day to reschedule....she responded well and said she'd let me know asap....

Ive had a few beers tonight, and I'm facing the realisation she probably wont contact me again...I just hate the way girls always seem cool as cucumbers, whilst the guys are left stressing...maybe its cos im desperate...but honestly, although never meeting her, this chick seems great...so this really could bring me down :cuss:

rant over
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jay Dee

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Focus on more than one bird, man, until you make it.
Then when one drops off, you won't notice that much.
Have your hobbies as well to keep your time even more occupied.
 

COD

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A PERSON U NEVER MET STOOD U UP................no sure if this qulaifies
 
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