"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how long until I NEXT her!?

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zemaj

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long story short. we never met. only facebook and txt. (mutual friend setting us up). we was supposed to meet yesterday, but she flaked bcoz she had to work late. (she did mention this possibility b4hand, and it was a busy day in town bcoz of an event)...

anyways, I left it saying I'd let her pick a day to reschedule....she responded well and said she'd let me know asap....

Ive had a few beers tonight, and I'm facing the realisation she probably wont contact me again...I just hate the way girls always seem cool as cucumbers, whilst the guys are left stressing...maybe its cos im desperate...but honestly, although never meeting her, this chick seems great...so this really could bring me down :cuss:

rant over
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Focus on more than one bird, man, until you make it.
Then when one drops off, you won't notice that much.
Have your hobbies as well to keep your time even more occupied.
 
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A PERSON U NEVER MET STOOD U UP................no sure if this qulaifies
 
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