Hello Friend,

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It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

how long until I NEXT her!?

zemaj

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long story short. we never met. only facebook and txt. (mutual friend setting us up). we was supposed to meet yesterday, but she flaked bcoz she had to work late. (she did mention this possibility b4hand, and it was a busy day in town bcoz of an event)...

anyways, I left it saying I'd let her pick a day to reschedule....she responded well and said she'd let me know asap....

Ive had a few beers tonight, and I'm facing the realisation she probably wont contact me again...I just hate the way girls always seem cool as cucumbers, whilst the guys are left stressing...maybe its cos im desperate...but honestly, although never meeting her, this chick seems great...so this really could bring me down :cuss:

rant over
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Jay Dee

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Focus on more than one bird, man, until you make it.
Then when one drops off, you won't notice that much.
Have your hobbies as well to keep your time even more occupied.
 

COD

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A PERSON U NEVER MET STOOD U UP................no sure if this qulaifies
 
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