"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How long to spin a plate for before giving up?

alx

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Pretty simple question. When do you give up?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RangerMIke

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Why would you date anyone when you are not getting what you want? I guess the answer to that question is I wouldn't waste any time, the minute I'm not getting what I want it's over.
 
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Chasing a woman doesn't do anything but kill their attraction for you. Once you ask them out, if they say no tell them to give you a call if they change their mind and you're done. Maybe other guys' experience differ, but I've never had a woman say yes to a date the second time I asked if she said no the first time and I was the one calling her. I've had women I've asked out once say no the first time, then they call me weeks later and I ask a second time and they say yes, but never if I'm the one calling them to ask a second time. If a woman says no but then later changes her mind and wants to see you, she'll make sure you get the chance to ask her again.
 

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You "give up" when you are no longer having fun.

Pretty simple.

If you have to make a thread about a woman you have already lost the game. Check my posting history to see the last time I made a thread trying to figure out what to do about a particular woman. NEVER.

Dealing with women who have low interest and refusing to let go of them will destroy your confidence and self-esteem. ALL MEN need to understand this.

The test of a woman's interest is how easily you can LEAD the relationship.

YOU make plans and she comes along = High interest.
YOU make plans and she has excuses = Low interest

Remember.. someone is always in charge of a relationship. If its not you.. then guess who it is? :crackup:
 
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