"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long to spin a plate for before giving up?

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alx

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Pretty simple question. When do you give up?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why would you date anyone when you are not getting what you want? I guess the answer to that question is I wouldn't waste any time, the minute I'm not getting what I want it's over.
 
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Chasing a woman doesn't do anything but kill their attraction for you. Once you ask them out, if they say no tell them to give you a call if they change their mind and you're done. Maybe other guys' experience differ, but I've never had a woman say yes to a date the second time I asked if she said no the first time and I was the one calling her. I've had women I've asked out once say no the first time, then they call me weeks later and I ask a second time and they say yes, but never if I'm the one calling them to ask a second time. If a woman says no but then later changes her mind and wants to see you, she'll make sure you get the chance to ask her again.
 
Poon King

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You "give up" when you are no longer having fun.

Pretty simple.

If you have to make a thread about a woman you have already lost the game. Check my posting history to see the last time I made a thread trying to figure out what to do about a particular woman. NEVER.

Dealing with women who have low interest and refusing to let go of them will destroy your confidence and self-esteem. ALL MEN need to understand this.

The test of a woman's interest is how easily you can LEAD the relationship.

YOU make plans and she comes along = High interest.
YOU make plans and she has excuses = Low interest

Remember.. someone is always in charge of a relationship. If its not you.. then guess who it is? :crackup:
 
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