"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How long to spin a plate for before giving up?

alx

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Pretty simple question. When do you give up?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RangerMIke

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Why would you date anyone when you are not getting what you want? I guess the answer to that question is I wouldn't waste any time, the minute I'm not getting what I want it's over.
 
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Chasing a woman doesn't do anything but kill their attraction for you. Once you ask them out, if they say no tell them to give you a call if they change their mind and you're done. Maybe other guys' experience differ, but I've never had a woman say yes to a date the second time I asked if she said no the first time and I was the one calling her. I've had women I've asked out once say no the first time, then they call me weeks later and I ask a second time and they say yes, but never if I'm the one calling them to ask a second time. If a woman says no but then later changes her mind and wants to see you, she'll make sure you get the chance to ask her again.
 

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You "give up" when you are no longer having fun.

Pretty simple.

If you have to make a thread about a woman you have already lost the game. Check my posting history to see the last time I made a thread trying to figure out what to do about a particular woman. NEVER.

Dealing with women who have low interest and refusing to let go of them will destroy your confidence and self-esteem. ALL MEN need to understand this.

The test of a woman's interest is how easily you can LEAD the relationship.

YOU make plans and she comes along = High interest.
YOU make plans and she has excuses = Low interest

Remember.. someone is always in charge of a relationship. If its not you.. then guess who it is? :crackup:
 
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