Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how long till SOME results

Master Homer

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I'm not talking like being built like a bodybuilder, but after going to gym 4 days a week & having a good diet, when should I be noticing muscle gain?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Take a photo now. Take a photo in a months time.

Marvel at the fact that you thought you were making no progress cause you've been looking at yourself every single day, but in actual fact you look a load better.

I dont see results unless I'm cutting. I'm too busy being narcissistic during the day to notice muscle gain these days.
 

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Originally posted by Master Homer
I'm not talking like being built like a bodybuilder, but after going to gym 4 days a week & having a good diet, when should I be noticing muscle gain?
You'll have noticible changes in your body in 6 weeks if done properly. And reduce your workouts to 3 days a week instead of 4. Recovery time is everything when it comes to building muscle.
 

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Yeah, I reckon a month if you are doing everything right.

But seeing the poundage on the bar go up is a good progress indicator when you first start WT.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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7 Virtues

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If you're just starting you should notice definite gains in weight lifted. These are neurological gains. 6 Weeks sounds about right for mass gains.

Also you can get plenty of rest with a 4 or even 5 day workout if you split it right.
 

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It takes time. You aren't going to have your dream body in a few weeks. Definitely take photos because you won't notice any difference because you see yourself every day.
 

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I started seeing changes in about a month.... I noticed more strength obviously and got more defined. Like now I'm noticing more veins showing and losing some more fat.
 

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ive been working out for like a week now taking days off and i already see my chest building uo same with my abs.... im so happy!!:D
 
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