"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how long till i start gaining weight

Zaraza

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Hey guys,

i started going to the gym almost a month ago, I have lowered my body fat from 16% down to 11%. But my weight itself hasnt really changed. I look more cut, should i just up the weight amount i am lifting?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you'd like your muscles to be bigger and stronger, that's exactly what you should do.
 

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So you've lowered your body fat and you're suprised that you havn't gained any weight? I think this is where common sense kicks in. :kick:

If you want to gain weight; lift big, eat big, and rest big. Focus on large compound movements. Read the many guides on this forum.
 

Zaraza

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thanks guys, i guess its not bad that i lowered my body fat, so ill focus on larger weights.
 

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and to answer your question literally...


the moment you pick something up and eat it, is when you gain weight...until you sh*t it out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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to gain weight, you must eat more. lifting heavier weights may stimulate more appetite, but w/o a plan for eating more, you will probably still weigh the same a month from now, or six months from now.
 

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I completely agree with what was said above. The only way to gain weight is to eat more calories and protein than you consume every day. If you're losing bodyfat, it's because you're eating less than you're burning.

Just remember, you can't gain serious weight AND be ripped at the same time. If you're gaining weight the odds are that you'll lose some of your definition, even if you're gaining strength and size.

At the peak of my training a couple of years ago my arms were 3" bigger than they are now, and I was eating 8 times per day to maintain it. I'm currently eating 4-6 times per day (including one protein shake of 30 g whey protein) and in the past month since I've started training again I've gained 5 lbs and 1/2 inch on each arm. AND IM A HARD HARD HARD GAINING SKINNY MOFO RIGHT NOW

Without the diet change, I'd never gain an ounce.
 

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Damn, well i upped my meals around 6 times a day, i also try to eat 4 fruits a day, no matter what it is.

how about like a snickers bar or anything....that wont help right? i mean it has **** loads of calories or am i aiming for nutrion + calories.
 

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if you want to log & then post your current eating habits, lots of guys here will be happy to rip it apa-- err, dissect it.

but the short version is, eat everything in sight. especially protein, protein, protein. but in your case, anything with calories will do.
 

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Throttle said:
if you want to log & then post your current eating habits, lots of guys here will be happy to rip it apa-- err, dissect it.
I think the polite term is 'critique'! :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ah polite schmolite

GIMMIE DAT SHIZ O I KILL YOU FOO
 
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