"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how long till i start gaining weight

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Hey guys,

i started going to the gym almost a month ago, I have lowered my body fat from 16% down to 11%. But my weight itself hasnt really changed. I look more cut, should i just up the weight amount i am lifting?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you'd like your muscles to be bigger and stronger, that's exactly what you should do.
 

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So you've lowered your body fat and you're suprised that you havn't gained any weight? I think this is where common sense kicks in. :kick:

If you want to gain weight; lift big, eat big, and rest big. Focus on large compound movements. Read the many guides on this forum.
 

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thanks guys, i guess its not bad that i lowered my body fat, so ill focus on larger weights.
 

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and to answer your question literally...


the moment you pick something up and eat it, is when you gain weight...until you sh*t it out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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to gain weight, you must eat more. lifting heavier weights may stimulate more appetite, but w/o a plan for eating more, you will probably still weigh the same a month from now, or six months from now.
 

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I completely agree with what was said above. The only way to gain weight is to eat more calories and protein than you consume every day. If you're losing bodyfat, it's because you're eating less than you're burning.

Just remember, you can't gain serious weight AND be ripped at the same time. If you're gaining weight the odds are that you'll lose some of your definition, even if you're gaining strength and size.

At the peak of my training a couple of years ago my arms were 3" bigger than they are now, and I was eating 8 times per day to maintain it. I'm currently eating 4-6 times per day (including one protein shake of 30 g whey protein) and in the past month since I've started training again I've gained 5 lbs and 1/2 inch on each arm. AND IM A HARD HARD HARD GAINING SKINNY MOFO RIGHT NOW

Without the diet change, I'd never gain an ounce.
 

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Damn, well i upped my meals around 6 times a day, i also try to eat 4 fruits a day, no matter what it is.

how about like a snickers bar or anything....that wont help right? i mean it has **** loads of calories or am i aiming for nutrion + calories.
 

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if you want to log & then post your current eating habits, lots of guys here will be happy to rip it apa-- err, dissect it.

but the short version is, eat everything in sight. especially protein, protein, protein. but in your case, anything with calories will do.
 

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Throttle said:
if you want to log & then post your current eating habits, lots of guys here will be happy to rip it apa-- err, dissect it.
I think the polite term is 'critique'! :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ah polite schmolite

GIMMIE DAT SHIZ O I KILL YOU FOO
 
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