"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How long should I wait?

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I just got together with a girl a week ago and I really dont want to screw it up. So far we've only gone as far as making out. I want to take it farther and eventually go for sex sometime in the next month but I was thinking this might be rushing things. Shes not a virgin so I know shes comfortable with sex but I dont want to break up all because I went to fast. Any thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You really don't want to screw up? Not at all? Absolutely not at all? That's it, you're screwed. Dude, just try something, you'll learn, and next time you'll be better at it. That's it. And if you are still really looking not to screw this up, break up with her, get some any other girl, try something, learn, and lastly come back with this girl. Now, do you realise how stupid this last advice is? So I'm back with my first thought: in any way, you'll get screwed if you care too much about screwing your shot. So screw it! and screw her!
 
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thanx...real confidence booster >.>

i guess i could just try to get farther and see if she lets me...if not...who cares...we can do it when shes ready...
 
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gmillar said:
Trying to get laid + thinking = not getting laid. Just do it.
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works for me :] I have a couple girls that cant wait for me to screw em anyway so I guess it really doesnt matter if this works.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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