"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How long should I wait?

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I just got together with a girl a week ago and I really dont want to screw it up. So far we've only gone as far as making out. I want to take it farther and eventually go for sex sometime in the next month but I was thinking this might be rushing things. Shes not a virgin so I know shes comfortable with sex but I dont want to break up all because I went to fast. Any thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You really don't want to screw up? Not at all? Absolutely not at all? That's it, you're screwed. Dude, just try something, you'll learn, and next time you'll be better at it. That's it. And if you are still really looking not to screw this up, break up with her, get some any other girl, try something, learn, and lastly come back with this girl. Now, do you realise how stupid this last advice is? So I'm back with my first thought: in any way, you'll get screwed if you care too much about screwing your shot. So screw it! and screw her!
 
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thanx...real confidence booster >.>

i guess i could just try to get farther and see if she lets me...if not...who cares...we can do it when shes ready...
 
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gmillar said:
Trying to get laid + thinking = not getting laid. Just do it.
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works for me :] I have a couple girls that cant wait for me to screw em anyway so I guess it really doesnt matter if this works.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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