"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just got together with a girl a week ago and I really dont want to screw it up. So far we've only gone as far as making out. I want to take it farther and eventually go for sex sometime in the next month but I was thinking this might be rushing things. Shes not a virgin so I know shes comfortable with sex but I dont want to break up all because I went to fast. Any thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You really don't want to screw up? Not at all? Absolutely not at all? That's it, you're screwed. Dude, just try something, you'll learn, and next time you'll be better at it. That's it. And if you are still really looking not to screw this up, break up with her, get some any other girl, try something, learn, and lastly come back with this girl. Now, do you realise how stupid this last advice is? So I'm back with my first thought: in any way, you'll get screwed if you care too much about screwing your shot. So screw it! and screw her!
 
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thanx...real confidence booster >.>

i guess i could just try to get farther and see if she lets me...if not...who cares...we can do it when shes ready...
 
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gmillar said:
Trying to get laid + thinking = not getting laid. Just do it.
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works for me :] I have a couple girls that cant wait for me to screw em anyway so I guess it really doesnt matter if this works.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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