"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How long should I wait?

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So I just asked this chick out today. I kind of put her on the spot (because it was infront of our whole class basically) but she said yes. Haha. Like people kept asking if we were going out, someone did the same today. And we were like no. Someone said I should ask her out right now, so I did. She got all embaressed, it was cute. But she said yes. Then the whole class clapped, it was something like out of a ****ing movie. Haha. It was kinda funny. But anyway. I have always flirted with this chick. I have gotten pretty touchy with her even before I asked her out, and we've held hands, blah blah. I have never kissed her yet though, which mainly my reason for writing this. When is the best time to kiss her? I kind of want to wait until the "moment feels right", but that moment may never come, and I'll just end up looking like a *****. But I also don't want to do it right away, because first kisses are suppoused to be memorable (or maybe thats just me?) lol. I don't want it to be lame, like some passing period peck. I don't know. Haha. How should I go about this? With my last gf, I did the later. I kissed her on the second day we went out, and it was akward as ****, but it seemed like once I broke the ice we kissed just about any chance we got to, so I'm sure this will be the same but yeah.. DJs! Advice please?

-No Fat Chicks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It will come brotha. I could see it. If you aint giving her no attention and play her to the curve just to get some good acknowlegement from yo homies then it wont. But if you do yo thing and that wait till its right should show up.
 

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Any other advice?

It's been day 2, still haven't kissed her yet. But I barely even got to see her today.. and anytime I did see her we weren't alone. This may be a little harder than I thought. What do you guys think? I can't get her alone! What to do?

-No Fat Chicks
 

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How old are you? 14? You two are together, right?
 

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^ Thanks for that smack of reality. I don't know what I was thinking. Lol, this thread was dumb.

-No Fat Chicks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm confused, I don't see how what oakraider said made a difference. :/ (Not in a bad way, I just don't think I understand what you meant by it or what NFC interpreted it as)
 

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The true DJ answer is.. whenever you ****ing want.

It only took a slap to my face to realize it. And FTW, I kissed her today.

Lol.

-No Fat Chicks
 

oakraiderz2

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Plec07 said:
I'm confused, I don't see how what oakraider said made a difference. :/ (Not in a bad way, I just don't think I understand what you meant by it or what NFC interpreted it as)
Thats cause i didnt feel like explaing. If they are officially together then i was gonna be rude and ask how the f*ck hasnt he kissed her. I know exactly what he said but it was kinda a stupid thing to post. You have a gf you havent kissed before...so what do you do? Not be a goddamn moron, thats what.
 

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Agreed. If she is your gf, you better kiss that girl!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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