"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how long per day for dj training?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ Mission

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Might want to put some time in to learn the groundwork and then whatever time you feel you should put in. The vantage point of a Don Juan is from the Self. Focus on yourself. The amount of time other people put in is inconsequential.
 

david90

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huh??

do u read articles? Bodybuilding? go out for cold approaches etc. If so how long do you spend per day doing those stuff
 

Not a Game

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If you check out my Boot Camp, you'll see that I'm doing this **** all day. It's about changing your entire life around and working hard to achieve your goals and become the person you want to be. Read my quotes and you'll get a better understanding.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ice Cold

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Originally posted by david90
huh??

do u read articles? Bodybuilding? go out for cold approaches etc. If so how long do you spend per day doing those stuff
Articles wear off after some time. As well as the forums.

Cold approaches... I don't do them. I network through people I know.

How is bodybuilding DJ?
 

wolfie

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I go out and cold approach up to 6 times a week. After work on weekdays, and all night on fridays, all day and night on saturdays.
 
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