"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how long per day for dj training?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ Mission

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Might want to put some time in to learn the groundwork and then whatever time you feel you should put in. The vantage point of a Don Juan is from the Self. Focus on yourself. The amount of time other people put in is inconsequential.
 
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david90

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huh??

do u read articles? Bodybuilding? go out for cold approaches etc. If so how long do you spend per day doing those stuff
 
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Not a Game

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If you check out my Boot Camp, you'll see that I'm doing this **** all day. It's about changing your entire life around and working hard to achieve your goals and become the person you want to be. Read my quotes and you'll get a better understanding.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ice Cold

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Originally posted by david90
huh??

do u read articles? Bodybuilding? go out for cold approaches etc. If so how long do you spend per day doing those stuff
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Articles wear off after some time. As well as the forums.

Cold approaches... I don't do them. I network through people I know.

How is bodybuilding DJ?
 
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wolfie

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I go out and cold approach up to 6 times a week. After work on weekdays, and all night on fridays, all day and night on saturdays.
 
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