How long would you hold off on a girl who you tell "make a choice me,or the other(her boyfriend)"? I keep telling her to make a choice and that I dont wait. She always say "I dont know who Iam choosing",but I bet she is waiting for high school to get out so she doesnt have to see her "boyfriend" every day at school. Now I am becomming fed up and I have stopped answering her calls. After we talked on the phone last night, I gave her a quick "Bye" and hung up before she could. She called back 3 times that night(yesterday),I didn't answer. She called back again this morning saying "Hey its me just wondering what you are doing,give me call back if you want or dont want to,bye." Am I right in thinging to ignore her for a day,then perhaps contact her or answer my phone? If you were wondering,she is so hot that everyone at my job knows "oh,wow, that one". Any suggestions?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How long do you...
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