How long would you hold off on a girl who you tell "make a choice me,or the other(her boyfriend)"? I keep telling her to make a choice and that I dont wait. She always say "I dont know who Iam choosing",but I bet she is waiting for high school to get out so she doesnt have to see her "boyfriend" every day at school. Now I am becomming fed up and I have stopped answering her calls. After we talked on the phone last night, I gave her a quick "Bye" and hung up before she could. She called back 3 times that night(yesterday),I didn't answer. She called back again this morning saying "Hey its me just wondering what you are doing,give me call back if you want or dont want to,bye." Am I right in thinging to ignore her for a day,then perhaps contact her or answer my phone? If you were wondering,she is so hot that everyone at my job knows "oh,wow, that one". Any suggestions?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How long do you...
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