"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How long can you go without masturbating?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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KnightRyder
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I am well latefor this thread. I just did a search to help me find motovation to stop. I mean some weeks I must jack off 30 times
It's gotten to the point where I brought this grl back from a club, when I had jacked off 3 times that day, and I couldnt get it up.
I'm glad I read that post about just not touching it in general. Cause on times I don't even realise I'm doing it, when I'm alone
Anyways, I've already started, and I'm on day 6 now, and my sea men aint sailing away
Anyone else in?
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So... are you getting it on a regular basis??? If so then there aint no reason to masterbate but if your not getting it regularly and are just holding out... your gonna blow any day now. Masterbation is a regular action, people do it to relieve sexual tension. Why you would deprive yourself of this, I have no idea.
I was just about to find some porn, but I think I skip it.
So I'm on day 3!
Anyone remebers the thing we had?
Public 2 week challenge. Our names were on the bible and all.
I almost got head in clubs bathroom, but it was closing time and the lights went off..
So I had to keep it another week.
It did wonders to my sex drive.
Count me in again!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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jonny football hero
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For me it's when i wake up and when i go to bed.
Life-Trainee
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"during World War II, military medics gave prostate massages to soldiers who hadn't been with a woman for months as a treatment for "pelvic congestion."
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Damn even when she is not around she still makes me mad lol
Day 1 begins tomorrow! I had plans to go to the gym today but I am too tired because of it!
Count me in... starting now. Tomorrow will be day 1.
Thanks!
Francisco d'Anconia
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sigh"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.