"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How long can you go without masturbating?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hb
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KnightRyder
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I am well latefor this thread. I just did a search to help me find motovation to stop. I mean some weeks I must jack off 30 times
It's gotten to the point where I brought this grl back from a club, when I had jacked off 3 times that day, and I couldnt get it up.
I'm glad I read that post about just not touching it in general. Cause on times I don't even realise I'm doing it, when I'm alone
Anyways, I've already started, and I'm on day 6 now, and my sea men aint sailing away
Anyone else in?
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So... are you getting it on a regular basis??? If so then there aint no reason to masterbate but if your not getting it regularly and are just holding out... your gonna blow any day now. Masterbation is a regular action, people do it to relieve sexual tension. Why you would deprive yourself of this, I have no idea.
I was just about to find some porn, but I think I skip it.
So I'm on day 3!
Anyone remebers the thing we had?
Public 2 week challenge. Our names were on the bible and all.
I almost got head in clubs bathroom, but it was closing time and the lights went off..
So I had to keep it another week.
It did wonders to my sex drive.
Count me in again!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
jonny football hero
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jonny football hero
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For me it's when i wake up and when i go to bed.
Life-Trainee
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Off AskMen.com
"during World War II, military medics gave prostate massages to soldiers who hadn't been with a woman for months as a treatment for "pelvic congestion."
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Damn even when she is not around she still makes me mad lol
Day 1 begins tomorrow! I had plans to go to the gym today but I am too tired because of it!
Count me in... starting now. Tomorrow will be day 1.
Thanks!
Francisco d'Anconia
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sigh"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.