“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

How long can you go without masturbating?

dip

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 22, 2002
Messages
900
Reaction score
0
Location
nu juru
i failed a few times..but at one point i was up to 3 weeks or so...im gonna begin today again!

day 1 here i come!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

stickboy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 13, 2001
Messages
373
Reaction score
0
Location
N/A
going to jerk off to porn right now and then I'm starting. My goal is to make it atleast until school starts again.
 

KnightRyder

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2004
Messages
271
Reaction score
0
Age
45
I can go for prob do 1 week off sometimes if i dont look at porn or lack contact with women, and then one day where i'm tired or see some porn ....i probably make up for all the times not masturbating..the more you try to hold off the stronger it rubberbands back at least for me..somehow whether I try or not it works out to about 1 a day
 

Mediocre

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2004
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
My record is about eleven years.

It's called pre-adolescence.

Anyway, I'm going to boycott masturbation for as long as I can.
 
Last edited:

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

S0LID

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2004
Messages
944
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Goal, 4 weeks

I am well latefor this thread. I just did a search to help me find motovation to stop. I mean some weeks I must jack off 30 times :(
It's gotten to the point where I brought this grl back from a club, when I had jacked off 3 times that day, and I couldnt get it up.

I'm glad I read that post about just not touching it in general. Cause on times I don't even realise I'm doing it, when I'm alone :(

Anyways, I've already started, and I'm on day 6 now, and my sea men aint sailing away :)

Anyone else in?
 

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
This thread is also in the archives if you want to find out who else is doing it.
 

icecreaman

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 31, 2004
Messages
116
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Originally posted by DB9
ha im on 37 days and i don't think i will ever do it again. to all the people that are struggling with this I bring some info for you.Jacking off is an unatural action that happens when chimps are in captivity.just every time you get that urge and you are in your house all alone just get out and go find something to do anything that will get your mind off of it.and before you know it you will be as far as i have gone. im out DB9
So... are you getting it on a regular basis??? If so then there aint no reason to masterbate but if your not getting it regularly and are just holding out... your gonna blow any day now. Masterbation is a regular action, people do it to relieve sexual tension. Why you would deprive yourself of this, I have no idea. :rolleyes:
 

Hot Ice

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2002
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
3
Location
Finland
****!

I was just about to find some porn, but I think I skip it.
So I'm on day 3! :p

Anyone remebers the thing we had?
Public 2 week challenge. Our names were on the bible and all.
I almost got head in clubs bathroom, but it was closing time and the lights went off..
So I had to keep it another week.
It did wonders to my sex drive.

Count me in again! :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

S0LID

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2004
Messages
944
Reaction score
1
Age
41
last night clubbing I was far more confident than I have ever been.
 

S0LID

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2004
Messages
944
Reaction score
1
Age
41
day 8................................................I seriously do not know how I managed to get through last night. I was mega horny, drunk, and stunning birds were around me all night..... I just kept thinking omg, I can't start again :(
 

jonny football hero

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 1, 2003
Messages
705
Reaction score
1
Age
38
Location
!Robin Hood country, Uk!
When do you find it the hardest NOT to go?

For me it's when i wake up and when i go to bed.
 

Life-Trainee

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
795
Reaction score
0
Location
Boston, MA
I'd imagine one could go long without masturbation when combined with prostate massage. Massaging prostate relieves the semen pressure and discharges it without sexual gratification. I read that method was used in WW2 by medics.

Off AskMen.com

"during World War II, military medics gave prostate massages to soldiers who hadn't been with a woman for months as a treatment for "pelvic congestion."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

S0LID

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2004
Messages
944
Reaction score
1
Age
41
day 1 of 28 starts again tomoz. Grrrrrrrrrrrr all that effort :( I'm devostated about this :(
 

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
damn, my ex-girlfriend has visited me in my dreams again all naked and horny, when I woke up this morning I had to go!

Damn even when she is not around she still makes me mad lol

Day 1 begins tomorrow! I had plans to go to the gym today but I am too tired because of it!
 

S0LID

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2004
Messages
944
Reaction score
1
Age
41
cool man, we'll both start tomoz :)
 

Tempest

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2004
Messages
231
Reaction score
1
Age
40
Wow I'm so glad people have revived this thread again. Last time this thread came up I stopped for about 40 days! Then one day I decided to do it again, then got back into jacking off daily for a few months. I've been meaning to stop again... but it was too hard. I just need motivation to stop!

Count me in... starting now. Tomorrow will be day 1.

Thanks!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
So DJism is reduced to keeping track of things like this.

:rolleyes: sigh:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Top