"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How long can you go without masturbating?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Engetsu

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For me, it's pretty weird, usually I don't get the urge to do at all it if I've had some action lately, be it as little as making out. I just don't feel like touching my d!ck.

When it's been a week without anything intimate going on, or when I'm used to being with the same girl, say after a month or so, the urges come again.

PS, I don't know if anyone else has this, but me if it's been a day or two without masturbating, a little jizz comes out while I'm taking a **** and I'm limp/semi-limp. I know it's a bit too much info there... :p but I'm really curious if I should go see a doctor about it or if it's normal...
 

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Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded
*Checks* .... Yeah... she says it is working just fine.

Hell, I cannot even figure out why I do not do it... in fact, I have practically tried everything to get the urge to do it (porn... the whole nine yards). Still... nothing. I have even tried to just rub it a little bit to see what would happen... I went limp. I guess I see no point or pleasure in it.

Besides... it just motivates me to go get some...;)
maybe ur gay-try looking at gay porn :p :p
 

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lol when i dont wack off for a while some of it comes out when im taking a deuce also
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by dip
maybe ur gay-try looking at gay porn :p :p
HA... *pops in tape* *then thinks better of it*

I would rather not find out... ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i had'nt for a couple of weeks until last night, i so want to have sex, all she has to do is contact me anytime and i will do it with her the same day if she wants, sex is just a phone call or whatever away
 

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Daily, but when I'm slacking with the dating stuff I stop, it's scary how waaay more motivation I have then lol.
 

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Longest I have gone is probably about a week or two. Who wants to take a challenge with me, and see how long we can go without it?
 

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I'll take your challenge. When do you want it to start?

In high school I went 8 days without masterbating while I was at summer camp. When I finally did it I shot out a huge Peter North wad of sperm. That's the longest i've ever gone. Recently I couldn't make it past 5 days.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Abnigh9
Wellllllll, it's been nearly 9 years since I touched my balls with my hands. It's been a few hours since a girl touched my balls for me though. :D
Does that mean you don't wash them? :eek:
 

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Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
I'll take your challenge. When do you want it to start?

In high school I went 8 days without masterbating while I was at summer camp. When I finally did it I shot out a huge Peter North wad of sperm. That's the longest i've ever gone. Recently I couldn't make it past 5 days.
I think I made it about two weeks the last time someone had one of those challenges. I'm game for it. I already swore off porn a couple days ago. Maybe I need to stop jerking it to get some natural sex drive going again. I just don't feel motivated.
 

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Dust 2 Dust and Squirrells, we will make the challenge start as of April 16 (which means when the clock ticks April 16, midnight, you are now a voluntary monk)...........good luck :D, keep eachother updated to see how we go, wonder if anyone will crumble after a few days, haha.....................
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Dust 2 Dust and Squirrells, we will make the challenge start as of April 16 (which means when the clock ticks April 16, midnight, you are now a voluntary monk)...........good luck :D, keep eachother updated to see how we go, wonder if anyone will crumble after a few days, haha.....................
i'm in as well
 

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Count me in too...I've been meaning to do this for awhile. I don't think I've ever gone 2 weeks, so this'll be interesting.

Just to be sure, any orgasm caused by a member of the opposite sex is permissible, right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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coincedentally

lol i was going to start one of these 4 days ago.

im with you guys too although im on day 4 now, ive withheld (or tried) quite a few times in the past and for me personally its that initial week or 2 thats difficult but once you get over that its smooth sailing and you reap the rewards, and trust me there ARE rewards.
 

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Great, a lot of guys willing to try. Well time to stop soon, so u guys better get wanking now :D. We will use this same thread to keep updates.
 

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Originally posted by Boricua_33015
The Taoists developed techniques to acheive an orgasm, without ejaculation.
The Taoists don't jerk off, or even feel the need to.

You're talking about the practices of Tantra.

By the way, I'll join the fun... my personal record is 50 days...
 

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Ok I'm in aswell with the monk **** haha.
I have to startsaying, I'm already having a hard time :D 11:31Hours and counting, gogogo
 

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Re: coincedentally

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
lol i was going to start one of these 4 days ago.

im with you guys too although im on day 4 now, ive withheld (or tried) quite a few times in the past and for me personally its that initial week or 2 thats difficult but once you get over that its smooth sailing and you reap the rewards, and trust me there ARE rewards.
Dude to keep us motivated, what are we talking about here ? Rewards you say ? Other then extra pvssy motivation, what rewards are there ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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