"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How long before you can ask again?

lxr

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This is actually more of a specific situation than a general rule.

I went on one date with a girl sophomore year, and it wasn't too much fun so we didn't do anything else. Easy to move on of course.

Now it is senior year and I see her around a lot (similar classes and what not). first of all she's way cuter now, and second of all she seems to like me.

Normally I wouldn't care about "risking" anything when asking a girl out (or making a move at least), but I'm afraid in this situation it would seriously hurt my game at my HS if freaked her out trying to start something again.

1. just do it
2. ask friends
3. try to judge her reactions (not my forte)

thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you think she likes you then she most likely does. And if she doesn't its not a big deal.

Always assume attraction, go and talk to her. Who cares what happened two years ago? I am hooking up with girls form freshman year, I'm a senior as well, that thought I was weird as hell. Its an awesome feeling to know how far you have come!
 

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i just didn't wanna seem creepy :) but i'm actually really proud of how much i've grown, so it'll be pretty cool to see what happens haha.

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Act like the first date NEVER HAPPENED. I'm very serious.
Never bring it up it isn't relevant. Talk to her, (NOT CALL!) plenty of Kino
from the start. Be sexual. No confusing LJBF thoughts or body language.
You are the man. The fracking MAN! And you are going to do her the
small favor of a little attention.

As a man you have a plan. You are going to do something fun and
as a favor, since you are feeling generous, you are inviting her along.
She comes / she doesn't no big deal. You will go [____your plan___]
and have a blast doing it.

Now Go ...... Do.....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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jtlancer said:
As a man you have a plan. You are going to do something fun and
as a favor, since you are feeling generous, you are inviting her along.
She comes / she doesn't no big deal. You will go [____your plan___]
and have a blast doing it.
Lancer has done his reading haha. It's a state of mind, act like you're going to have fun no matter what, she can come along, or she can't, it doesn't really matter to you since you're such a stud and interesting person, you've got millions of other things you could be doing instead of hanging out with her. Maybe it's hanging with friends, read/watching a movie, reading sosuave, going to the mall to pick up other chicks...what ev. Either way, you're the man, and you don't need her.but she's still nice to have :p
 

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haha thanks guys. I AM the man, right? right! I guess if i find myself about to do something fun i'll give her the chance to tag along. I'll update here if it's interesting
 
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