How long before you can ask again?

[lxr]

This is actually more of a specific situation than a general rule.

I went on one date with a girl sophomore year, and it wasn't too much fun so we didn't do anything else. Easy to move on of course.

Now it is senior year and I see her around a lot (similar classes and what not). first of all she's way cuter now, and second of all she seems to like me.

Normally I wouldn't care about "risking" anything when asking a girl out (or making a move at least), but I'm afraid in this situation it would seriously hurt my game at my HS if freaked her out trying to start something again.

1. just do it
2. ask friends
3. try to judge her reactions (not my forte)

thanks!

 

[SPEAK]

If you think she likes you then she most likely does. And if she doesn't its not a big deal.

Always assume attraction, go and talk to her. Who cares what happened two years ago? I am hooking up with girls form freshman year, I'm a senior as well, that thought I was weird as hell. Its an awesome feeling to know how far you have come!

 

[f283000]

You're a senior, if she were to say no you probably won't see her ever again like most people from high school after it's over so what are you worried about?

 

[lxr]

i just didn't wanna seem creepy but i'm actually really proud of how much i've grown, so it'll be pretty cool to see what happens haha.

thanks

 

[jtlancer]

Act like the first date NEVER HAPPENED. I'm very serious.
Never bring it up it isn't relevant. Talk to her, (NOT CALL!) plenty of Kino
from the start. Be sexual. No confusing LJBF thoughts or body language.
You are the man. The fracking MAN! And you are going to do her the
small favor of a little attention.

As a man you have a plan. You are going to do something fun and
as a favor, since you are feeling generous, you are inviting her along.
She comes / she doesn't no big deal. You will go [____your plan___]
and have a blast doing it.

Now Go ...... Do.....

 

[AlexLefty]

As a man you have a plan. You are going to do something fun and
as a favor, since you are feeling generous, you are inviting her along.
She comes / she doesn't no big deal. You will go [____your plan___]
and have a blast doing it.

Lancer has done his reading haha. It's a state of mind, act like you're going to have fun no matter what, she can come along, or she can't, it doesn't really matter to you since you're such a stud and interesting person, you've got millions of other things you could be doing instead of hanging out with her. Maybe it's hanging with friends, read/watching a movie, reading sosuave, going to the mall to pick up other chicks...what ev. Either way, you're the man, and you don't need her.but she's still nice to have

 

[lxr]

haha thanks guys. I AM the man, right? right! I guess if i find myself about to do something fun i'll give her the chance to tag along. I'll update here if it's interesting