"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How Long Before I Call Her

Oni

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Yesterday, i asked a friend of mine whom i used to have much interest in and havent seen in a long time out for lunch. After that we went to watch something and then a stroll in the park. Later that night she told me it was one of the best days she had so far since summer started and she loves me for that, followed by saying how she doesnt say that to everyone. The catch with this person is that i used to be in the freind zone during hs.

Now I've been thinking, it's not bad for a good start right? After I dropped her off yesterday she told me that she wants to hangout more often and etc.

So now I'm wondering how long should i wait before I ask her out again, and what should i do in between those time? Thanks guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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COD

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ummm1-3 days top and masturbation is always a favorite of men.

Dude........u need to take it up a notch.........call her when she has time, make a date and escalate.....nuff said.

too many guys on here THINK........just go with your gutt Or penis........what ever.

KINO-KISS-THEN SEX.........man o man like you already know what to do.......TURN COMPUTER OFF, PICK UP THE PHONE, MEET HER.....THEN KICK IT ALREADY.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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John-467

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It depends.....

If you are using the high sexual route, then you can call her at anytime...just choose a time where she'll most likely be alone and it'll be quiet.
 
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