"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How Long Before I Call Her

Oni

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Yesterday, i asked a friend of mine whom i used to have much interest in and havent seen in a long time out for lunch. After that we went to watch something and then a stroll in the park. Later that night she told me it was one of the best days she had so far since summer started and she loves me for that, followed by saying how she doesnt say that to everyone. The catch with this person is that i used to be in the freind zone during hs.

Now I've been thinking, it's not bad for a good start right? After I dropped her off yesterday she told me that she wants to hangout more often and etc.

So now I'm wondering how long should i wait before I ask her out again, and what should i do in between those time? Thanks guys
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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COD

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ummm1-3 days top and masturbation is always a favorite of men.

Dude........u need to take it up a notch.........call her when she has time, make a date and escalate.....nuff said.

too many guys on here THINK........just go with your gutt Or penis........what ever.

KINO-KISS-THEN SEX.........man o man like you already know what to do.......TURN COMPUTER OFF, PICK UP THE PHONE, MEET HER.....THEN KICK IT ALREADY.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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John-467

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It depends.....

If you are using the high sexual route, then you can call her at anytime...just choose a time where she'll most likely be alone and it'll be quiet.
 
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