"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How Long Before I Call Her

Oni

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Yesterday, i asked a friend of mine whom i used to have much interest in and havent seen in a long time out for lunch. After that we went to watch something and then a stroll in the park. Later that night she told me it was one of the best days she had so far since summer started and she loves me for that, followed by saying how she doesnt say that to everyone. The catch with this person is that i used to be in the freind zone during hs.

Now I've been thinking, it's not bad for a good start right? After I dropped her off yesterday she told me that she wants to hangout more often and etc.

So now I'm wondering how long should i wait before I ask her out again, and what should i do in between those time? Thanks guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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COD

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ummm1-3 days top and masturbation is always a favorite of men.

Dude........u need to take it up a notch.........call her when she has time, make a date and escalate.....nuff said.

too many guys on here THINK........just go with your gutt Or penis........what ever.

KINO-KISS-THEN SEX.........man o man like you already know what to do.......TURN COMPUTER OFF, PICK UP THE PHONE, MEET HER.....THEN KICK IT ALREADY.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It depends.....

If you are using the high sexual route, then you can call her at anytime...just choose a time where she'll most likely be alone and it'll be quiet.
 
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