How long after 1st date do you wait to call?

[MikeEdward1973]

Normally, if I meet up on a Friday, I'll call on a Monday. If it's a Saturday, I'll still call on a Monday.

Someone said earlier they wait 5 days.

Do you guys suggest waiting until, say, Wednesday?

A bit of context: I'm 34, most of the women I'm talking about are 27 to 32, working professionals, etc.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Depends on the phase of the moon. Y'know the moon has an effect on a woman's cycle.

 

[FM 3321]

Why isn't she calling you?

 

[mahon83050]

Normally, if I meet up on a Friday, I'll call on a Monday. If it's a Saturday, I'll still call on a Monday.

Someone said earlier they wait 5 days.

Do you guys suggest waiting until, say, Wednesday?

A bit of context: I'm 34, most of the women I'm talking about are 27 to 32, working professionals, etc.

I think you are supposed to call the next day or maximum 2 days after the date.

I made the mistake once of waiting until I saw the girl in class on Tuesday (we went out on Saturday night) and she lost interest because of it.

 

[Metro3pilot]

Yeah 5 days is way too long ...makes you look like a player, nobody is so busy they can't make a 30 second phone call ...

women try and play this " sorry I did not call , I was busy " to me that means not interested or game player ...sorry my friend trix are for kids and I don't look like a damn rabbit

waiting after the weekend I can see ....

:rockon:

 

[Aenigma]

Depends on the phase of the moon. Y'know the moon has an effect on a woman's cycle.

Which moon do you use? If I'm a bit in debt, more then I would like, for that month to go by the phase of Io. If I'm feeling a bit timid and I'm afraid to call I'll go with Phobos.

At any rate, there's only one moon that's important --->:moon:

 

[Bible_Belt]

What if you have sex on the first date? How does that change things?

 

[Aenigma]

What if you have sex on the first date? How does that change things?

Depends on when you end up going home. Rule of thumb:

That night = the next day
Next morning = 2-3 days.

 

[MikeEdward1973]

I think you are supposed to call the next day or maximum 2 days after the date.

I made the mistake once of waiting until I saw the girl in class on Tuesday (we went out on Saturday night) and she lost interest because of it.

I think then I'll stick with 2 to 3 days.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Depends on when you end up going home. Rule of thumb:

That night = the next day
Next morning = 2-3 days.

OK, thanks. That's kind of what I thought. I bailed after sex, and I was going to call her late tonight.

 

[jophil28]

most of the women I'm talking about are 27 to 32, working professionals, etc.

Ah ! this is your lucky day Mikey -

Some FREE insight for ya - "working professionals" are great to date in the first few months. They are in 'career' mode during the day - all work and sooooo serious, and they usually work long hours .
So any little snippets of romantic FUN and or ****y funny stuff that you can email to 'em during the day is eagerly comsumed by them . I love those women who are ALL business in their striped suits . You know the ones; hair slicked back and striding along like the deputy principal coming down the hall.
The trick is to play with their girly side while they are at work . Don't discuss their work.they get enough of shop talk- get some ideas from David D and "go out to play " with them.

Good hunting .

 

[MikeEdward1973]

Ah ! this is your lucky day Mikey -

Some FREE insight for ya - "working professionals" are great to date in the first few months. They are in 'career' mode during the day - all work and sooooo serious, and they usually work long hours .
So any little snippets of romantic FUN and or ****y funny stuff that you can email to 'em during the day is eagerly comsumed by them . I love those women who are ALL business in their striped suits . You know the ones; hair slicked back and striding along like the deputy principal coming down the hall.
The trick is to play with their girly side while they are at work . Don't discuss their work.they get enough of shop talk- get some ideas from David D and "go out to play " with them.

Good hunting .

Ok, got it. note to self: stop harping on work.

Should I ask who David D is?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Which moon do you use? If I'm a bit in debt, more then I would like, for that month to go by the phase of Io. If I'm feeling a bit timid and I'm afraid to call I'll go with Phobos.

At any rate, there's only one moon that's important --->:moon:

Alright, just as long as you don't tell any Uranus jokes.