Mitch_Mustain
Don Juan
I might have stated the header wrong but check this out
http://www.love-shy.com/Gilmartin/Chapter03/wishbone.html
http://www.love-shy.com/Gilmartin/Chapter03/wishbone.html
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How kindergarten affects our chances at a successful social life
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ace of Flames
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Ok, I'm not gonna read any of that article, because its way too long and science-y, but I will respond to the title of this thread.
I agree. Not necissarily kindergarden itself, but what happens there. This is usually the first time that a little guy will try to talk to or approach a girl. He just wants to play with her. If she agrees, great. He's on the right path. If she rejects him somehow, then he'll be scarred for life. He'll always be effected by his first approach attempt with a girl. Its a subconcious thing.
Think about it. You see a girl playing with a kool toy, and you want to share. You walk over and say hi, sit down, and start to play with it. She blows a gasket. Crying, screaming, little kid tantrums, you know the deal. Now you, being the little 5 year old you are, don't understand this. You were trying to play with her, and she goes ballistic. This builds up a fear inside you, that maybe if you try to approach a girl again, she may get angry. Its some serious shyt guys.
I'm gonna go with my son on his first day of school, and try to make sure he meets a nice little girl and all goes well. This first interaction is very important.
I agree. Not necissarily kindergarden itself, but what happens there. This is usually the first time that a little guy will try to talk to or approach a girl. He just wants to play with her. If she agrees, great. He's on the right path. If she rejects him somehow, then he'll be scarred for life. He'll always be effected by his first approach attempt with a girl. Its a subconcious thing.
Think about it. You see a girl playing with a kool toy, and you want to share. You walk over and say hi, sit down, and start to play with it. She blows a gasket. Crying, screaming, little kid tantrums, you know the deal. Now you, being the little 5 year old you are, don't understand this. You were trying to play with her, and she goes ballistic. This builds up a fear inside you, that maybe if you try to approach a girl again, she may get angry. Its some serious shyt guys.
I'm gonna go with my son on his first day of school, and try to make sure he meets a nice little girl and all goes well. This first interaction is very important.
penkitten
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everything you need to know you learn in kindergarden.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Not everything. In kindergarten I didn't learn how to put it to some chick.
I remember I was with a couple of friends at the computer lounge and we started a random program with some animal videos. The first sex I ever saw was between 2 gazellas. And the next day I asked the teacher (I was in 3rd grade): "Teacher, but why do animals put their penis in the female's anus while men put theirs in the female's vagina?" (the video wasn't too clear, as you can easily understand).
The class was shocked and silent. I think it changed my life, because now I'm obsessed with anal sex.
Also, I'm really scared about looking as a maniac to girls and I think this is due to a young girl accusing me of taking her to the toilet with a friend of mine and trying to look at her "dooby-dooby". Too bad that I was in 2nd grade and I didn't even know what a "dooby-dooby" was. Obviously my mother shouted at the teacher that she was gonna sue her and the child's mother if that happened again. Bad experience, believe me. Even today, if I meet that girl again (I heard she got pregnant at 12), I'm fùcking gonna slap her bùtt and spit in her face, litterally.
The class was shocked and silent. I think it changed my life, because now I'm obsessed with anal sex.
Also, I'm really scared about looking as a maniac to girls and I think this is due to a young girl accusing me of taking her to the toilet with a friend of mine and trying to look at her "dooby-dooby". Too bad that I was in 2nd grade and I didn't even know what a "dooby-dooby" was. Obviously my mother shouted at the teacher that she was gonna sue her and the child's mother if that happened again. Bad experience, believe me. Even today, if I meet that girl again (I heard she got pregnant at 12), I'm fùcking gonna slap her bùtt and spit in her face, litterally.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ThreeStorms
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lol @Adone
Funny thing is, if my memory doesn't fool me, I was some kind of pimp in kindergarden
But I completely lost it with the years.
Funny thing is, if my memory doesn't fool me, I was some kind of pimp in kindergarden
But I completely lost it with the years.Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
I played with legos and was the kids who could spin people on the tire swing really well.
oakraiderz2
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Yea, im pretty sure it has an affect to an certain extent, but people can change so yea...take it for what you will. In kindergarden i cried the first day and it was ****ty. I dont remember a specific event that was tragic, but i DONT remember my parents telling/showing me how to socialize; my mom was/is kinda overprotective.
Mctwist4 said:
3rd grade?! You're my idol.
Another thing I forgot to mention is that when I was in Kindergarten (by the way, it's elementary school, isn't it?), the first couple of times I "fell in love", I would tell my mother and I would recommend her not to tell my dad and brothers, because I was sure they would make embarrassed about it. Guess what, she would always tell them. All the way since 3rd grade to my High School Junior Year (!), my game was really affected by this, since I would always walk on egg shells, making sure my parents wouldn't hear about my relationships, which obviously lasted, at the very most, a couple of days.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When I was five I remember every night I'd imagine the three prettiest girls in my class - Lyn Carcary, Tracy Winstanley and Mandy Ince - were sharing my bed.
I had no idea what sex was, and I could never figure out how I could cuddle three girls at once, but there was obviously some nascent polygamous impulses there.
It's those who had a hot phase at school and then grew up ugly or plain that I feel sorry for. Peaked too early with only their memories of kiss-chase popularity to comfort them.
I had no idea what sex was, and I could never figure out how I could cuddle three girls at once, but there was obviously some nascent polygamous impulses there.
It's those who had a hot phase at school and then grew up ugly or plain that I feel sorry for. Peaked too early with only their memories of kiss-chase popularity to comfort them.
diplomatic_lies
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Man, the kinder I went to was VIOLENT. Some kids would get into a fight and next thing you know some dude has blood out of his mouth. Even the girls got into fights with each other.
I dont know what this has taught me, except that plastic screwdrivers can still hurt when its crammed down your throat.
I dont know what this has taught me, except that plastic screwdrivers can still hurt when its crammed down your throat.
BacardiGuy
Senior Don Juan
If I recall everyone in my town as giving each other cootie shots and playing boys vs girls tag (more like just chasing) up through 4th grade...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.