How kindergarten affects our chances at a successful social life

[Mitch_Mustain]

I might have stated the header wrong but check this out

http://www.love-shy.com/Gilmartin/Chapter03/wishbone.html

 

[Ace of Flames]

Ok, I'm not gonna read any of that article, because its way too long and science-y, but I will respond to the title of this thread.

I agree. Not necissarily kindergarden itself, but what happens there. This is usually the first time that a little guy will try to talk to or approach a girl. He just wants to play with her. If she agrees, great. He's on the right path. If she rejects him somehow, then he'll be scarred for life. He'll always be effected by his first approach attempt with a girl. Its a subconcious thing.

Think about it. You see a girl playing with a kool toy, and you want to share. You walk over and say hi, sit down, and start to play with it. She blows a gasket. Crying, screaming, little kid tantrums, you know the deal. Now you, being the little 5 year old you are, don't understand this. You were trying to play with her, and she goes ballistic. This builds up a fear inside you, that maybe if you try to approach a girl again, she may get angry. Its some serious shyt guys.

I'm gonna go with my son on his first day of school, and try to make sure he meets a nice little girl and all goes well. This first interaction is very important.

 

[penkitten]

everything you need to know you learn in kindergarden.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Not everything. In kindergarten I didn't learn how to put it to some chick.

 

[Adone]

I remember I was with a couple of friends at the computer lounge and we started a random program with some animal videos. The first sex I ever saw was between 2 gazellas. And the next day I asked the teacher (I was in 3rd grade): "Teacher, but why do animals put their penis in the female's anus while men put theirs in the female's vagina?" (the video wasn't too clear, as you can easily understand).

The class was shocked and silent. I think it changed my life, because now I'm obsessed with anal sex.


Also, I'm really scared about looking as a maniac to girls and I think this is due to a young girl accusing me of taking her to the toilet with a friend of mine and trying to look at her "dooby-dooby". Too bad that I was in 2nd grade and I didn't even know what a "dooby-dooby" was. Obviously my mother shouted at the teacher that she was gonna sue her and the child's mother if that happened again. Bad experience, believe me. Even today, if I meet that girl again (I heard she got pregnant at 12), I'm fùcking gonna slap her bùtt and spit in her face, litterally.

 

[ThreeStorms]

lol @Adone

Funny thing is, if my memory doesn't fool me, I was some kind of pimp in kindergarden But I completely lost it with the years.

 

[Brian20o2]

I played with legos and was the kids who could spin people on the tire swing really well.

 

[Berlex]

"who is your daddy and what does he do?"

 

[oakraiderz2]

Yea, im pretty sure it has an affect to an certain extent, but people can change so yea...take it for what you will. In kindergarden i cried the first day and it was ****ty. I dont remember a specific event that was tragic, but i DONT remember my parents telling/showing me how to socialize; my mom was/is kinda overprotective.

 

[Adone]

Yeah I was brought up to think that having a crush on a girl was wrong because my mom didn't want me to at such a young age (up to 6th or 7th grade). I think this kind of ****ed me over because by 3rd grade I was obsessed with porn.

3rd grade?! You're my idol.

Another thing I forgot to mention is that when I was in Kindergarten (by the way, it's elementary school, isn't it?), the first couple of times I "fell in love", I would tell my mother and I would recommend her not to tell my dad and brothers, because I was sure they would make embarrassed about it. Guess what, she would always tell them. All the way since 3rd grade to my High School Junior Year (!), my game was really affected by this, since I would always walk on egg shells, making sure my parents wouldn't hear about my relationships, which obviously lasted, at the very most, a couple of days.

 

[Nighthawk]

When I was five I remember every night I'd imagine the three prettiest girls in my class - Lyn Carcary, Tracy Winstanley and Mandy Ince - were sharing my bed.

I had no idea what sex was, and I could never figure out how I could cuddle three girls at once, but there was obviously some nascent polygamous impulses there.

It's those who had a hot phase at school and then grew up ugly or plain that I feel sorry for. Peaked too early with only their memories of kiss-chase popularity to comfort them.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Man, the kinder I went to was VIOLENT. Some kids would get into a fight and next thing you know some dude has blood out of his mouth. Even the girls got into fights with each other.

I dont know what this has taught me, except that plastic screwdrivers can still hurt when its crammed down your throat.

 

[BacardiGuy]

If I recall everyone in my town as giving each other cootie shots and playing boys vs girls tag (more like just chasing) up through 4th grade...

 

[Bvbidd]

I would keep trying to play docter.

 

[[R]eality]

Ok, I'm not gonna read any of that article, because its way too long and science-y, but I will respond to the title of this thread.

That's the mentality and end product of your country's [US] education!

 

[Bling]

Uh huh... in Kindergarten was picked on because I had a big head. I use to go home crying to my mom all the time. Now I pick on people, and am never picked on. What happened there?