Naughty Ninja
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How is this red pill going to help you find a woman, if you are even looking for women anymore at this point?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How is this red pill going to help you find a woman?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I'm usually on the picket line.,. well not necessarily that but i'm usually the first one to talk about the MGTOW movement or what not however I do believe there are 2 parts of game.Naughty Ninja said:
First, you have to figure out how to attract them.
Secondly, you have to figure out how to not be taken advantage by them. Marriage wise, legal wise, parterny wise, financially wise, whatever wise. To that extent I do believe the red pill is necessary.
I mean, think about it does it matter how much game you have, if you are going to just get the first girl who swallows pregnant and put a ring on her finger lol? Or what about the female who you know who keeps trying to move in with you to take advantage of the free rent and she keeps giving you these sob stories or what not and you keep falling for it and now she's got Joe the crackhead sneaking over and they get busted at your house and there's 8 grams of crack in the kitchen and they both swear they didn't know whose it was lol. Or the girl who you had casual sex with, beucase you have game, and swears she's pregant even though she won't take a DNA test. Understanding the playing field, what the rules of engagement are, these are things that are necessary.
But using that analogy, I believe that the red pill is one of many courses that one has to take to get his degree. It should not be THE course.
you know, i will give you a real life real world example that actually happened today of why the red pill is i important.
I've been in Arkansas for my fav aunt's wedding I got back this morning. When I got back I got word that a friend of mine who is in AA is graduating from drug court. That's a pretty big deal so I made my way down to the court house and I get there a tad early and I sit down and the judge is handling **** from earlier in the day before drug court starts.
So there's this guy who is in chains / handcuffs/ jump suit and he gets up there with his judge. Guy agrees to do 120 months in jail (10 years) for aggravted robery or something like that. to make a long story short, his girlfriend broke up with him, he gets sad and **** and gets depressed, about 3 weeks later he starts drinking gets on one, he calls his EX she picks up the phone and he won't let her talk to him, so he goes over, breaks in the damn house lol, and take sa knife and treis to stab him and her. somehow they got away and he got arrested. Him reading Rollo's post on Hypergany would have saved this man 10 years of his life. 10 ****ing years over some skank. That **** broke my heart. He looks so sad too.
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you gotta hit rock bottom first right?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The red pill is not about getting women although it can help in deciphering womens true nature, tricks and intentions.
without red pill knowledge or awareness, getting with a woman is like a 17 year old being given a brand new car without any knowledge of its mechanics, the car needs servicing, maintaining, it needs fuel, it suddenly stops because it has ran out, ...'nobody told me I needed gas!".
with a car you can get a breakdown guy, a mechanic, re fuel and all is good, you learn more about the car but do you become a better driver? not neccassarily but you need to know how the damn thing works or you will hit more trouble more often
without red pill knowledge or awareness, getting with a woman is like a 17 year old being given a brand new car without any knowledge of its mechanics, the car needs servicing, maintaining, it needs fuel, it suddenly stops because it has ran out, ...'nobody told me I needed gas!".
with a car you can get a breakdown guy, a mechanic, re fuel and all is good, you learn more about the car but do you become a better driver? not neccassarily but you need to know how the damn thing works or you will hit more trouble more often
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
think "the Matrix"coachD said: