How is this red pill going to help you find a woman?

[Naughty Ninja]

How is this red pill going to help you find a woman, if you are even looking for women anymore at this point?

 

[backbreaker]

How is this red pill going to help you find a woman, if you are even looking for women anymore at this point?

I'm usually on the picket line.,. well not necessarily that but i'm usually the first one to talk about the MGTOW movement or what not however I do believe there are 2 parts of game.

First, you have to figure out how to attract them.

Secondly, you have to figure out how to not be taken advantage by them. Marriage wise, legal wise, parterny wise, financially wise, whatever wise. To that extent I do believe the red pill is necessary.

I mean, think about it does it matter how much game you have, if you are going to just get the first girl who swallows pregnant and put a ring on her finger lol? Or what about the female who you know who keeps trying to move in with you to take advantage of the free rent and she keeps giving you these sob stories or what not and you keep falling for it and now she's got Joe the crackhead sneaking over and they get busted at your house and there's 8 grams of crack in the kitchen and they both swear they didn't know whose it was lol. Or the girl who you had casual sex with, beucase you have game, and swears she's pregant even though she won't take a DNA test. Understanding the playing field, what the rules of engagement are, these are things that are necessary.

But using that analogy, I believe that the red pill is one of many courses that one has to take to get his degree. It should not be THE course.

you know, i will give you a real life real world example that actually happened today of why the red pill is i important.

I've been in Arkansas for my fav aunt's wedding I got back this morning. When I got back I got word that a friend of mine who is in AA is graduating from drug court. That's a pretty big deal so I made my way down to the court house and I get there a tad early and I sit down and the judge is handling **** from earlier in the day before drug court starts.

So there's this guy who is in chains / handcuffs/ jump suit and he gets up there with his judge. Guy agrees to do 120 months in jail (10 years) for aggravted robery or something like that. to make a long story short, his girlfriend broke up with him, he gets sad and **** and gets depressed, about 3 weeks later he starts drinking gets on one, he calls his EX she picks up the phone and he won't let her talk to him, so he goes over, breaks in the damn house lol, and take sa knife and treis to stab him and her. somehow they got away and he got arrested. Him reading Rollo's post on Hypergany would have saved this man 10 years of his life. 10 ****ing years over some skank. That **** broke my heart. He looks so sad too.

 

[foreverAFC]

you gotta hit rock bottom first right?

 

[evan12]

It help you to have more understanding of how woman think so you make less mistakes .

 

[Fatal Jay]

I don't look at it as trying to attract a woman...I look at it as knowing, and realizing my own value. Setting boundaries. Bending, but not bending over.

After a divorce, subsequent handful of relationships......all of which had their good points, and a couple of which I screwed up by being needy?

I now try and remain somewhat detached, and never lose the mindset
"This is me. A great guy. Not perfect, and maybe not the best. But better, far better than most. Always improving myself, always learning. If you would like to come into my world, I will try and acomodate you, but not at all costs"

took me 26 years to realize its about me, and never them.

 

[floydb25]

you gotta hit rock bottom first right?

Sticking feathers up your butt does not make you a chicken!

 

[casaanova]

The PUAs can teach you to 'find' women. The red pill isn't about finding women, it's about learning to deal with them

 

[Plutoman]

The PUAs can teach you to 'find' women. The red pill isn't about finding women, it's about learning to deal with them

A remarkably concise way to put it.

 

[betheman]

The red pill is not about getting women although it can help in deciphering womens true nature, tricks and intentions.
without red pill knowledge or awareness, getting with a woman is like a 17 year old being given a brand new car without any knowledge of its mechanics, the car needs servicing, maintaining, it needs fuel, it suddenly stops because it has ran out, ...'nobody told me I needed gas!".
with a car you can get a breakdown guy, a mechanic, re fuel and all is good, you learn more about the car but do you become a better driver? not neccassarily but you need to know how the damn thing works or you will hit more trouble more often

 

[coachD]

What's the red pill?

 

[Purefilth]

What's the red pill?

think "the Matrix"