Naughty Ninja
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How is this red pill going to help you find a woman, if you are even looking for women anymore at this point?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How is this red pill going to help you find a woman?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I'm usually on the picket line.,. well not necessarily that but i'm usually the first one to talk about the MGTOW movement or what not however I do believe there are 2 parts of game.Naughty Ninja said:
First, you have to figure out how to attract them.
Secondly, you have to figure out how to not be taken advantage by them. Marriage wise, legal wise, parterny wise, financially wise, whatever wise. To that extent I do believe the red pill is necessary.
I mean, think about it does it matter how much game you have, if you are going to just get the first girl who swallows pregnant and put a ring on her finger lol? Or what about the female who you know who keeps trying to move in with you to take advantage of the free rent and she keeps giving you these sob stories or what not and you keep falling for it and now she's got Joe the crackhead sneaking over and they get busted at your house and there's 8 grams of crack in the kitchen and they both swear they didn't know whose it was lol. Or the girl who you had casual sex with, beucase you have game, and swears she's pregant even though she won't take a DNA test. Understanding the playing field, what the rules of engagement are, these are things that are necessary.
But using that analogy, I believe that the red pill is one of many courses that one has to take to get his degree. It should not be THE course.
you know, i will give you a real life real world example that actually happened today of why the red pill is i important.
I've been in Arkansas for my fav aunt's wedding I got back this morning. When I got back I got word that a friend of mine who is in AA is graduating from drug court. That's a pretty big deal so I made my way down to the court house and I get there a tad early and I sit down and the judge is handling **** from earlier in the day before drug court starts.
So there's this guy who is in chains / handcuffs/ jump suit and he gets up there with his judge. Guy agrees to do 120 months in jail (10 years) for aggravted robery or something like that. to make a long story short, his girlfriend broke up with him, he gets sad and **** and gets depressed, about 3 weeks later he starts drinking gets on one, he calls his EX she picks up the phone and he won't let her talk to him, so he goes over, breaks in the damn house lol, and take sa knife and treis to stab him and her. somehow they got away and he got arrested. Him reading Rollo's post on Hypergany would have saved this man 10 years of his life. 10 ****ing years over some skank. That **** broke my heart. He looks so sad too.
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you gotta hit rock bottom first right?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The red pill is not about getting women although it can help in deciphering womens true nature, tricks and intentions.
without red pill knowledge or awareness, getting with a woman is like a 17 year old being given a brand new car without any knowledge of its mechanics, the car needs servicing, maintaining, it needs fuel, it suddenly stops because it has ran out, ...'nobody told me I needed gas!".
with a car you can get a breakdown guy, a mechanic, re fuel and all is good, you learn more about the car but do you become a better driver? not neccassarily but you need to know how the damn thing works or you will hit more trouble more often
without red pill knowledge or awareness, getting with a woman is like a 17 year old being given a brand new car without any knowledge of its mechanics, the car needs servicing, maintaining, it needs fuel, it suddenly stops because it has ran out, ...'nobody told me I needed gas!".
with a car you can get a breakdown guy, a mechanic, re fuel and all is good, you learn more about the car but do you become a better driver? not neccassarily but you need to know how the damn thing works or you will hit more trouble more often
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
think "the Matrix"coachD said: