“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How is this forum still around?

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Just wanted to know how is this forum still around this day and age saying good morning to the lovely girl get you in trouble lol
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This Forum still exists because of the information gap some men have concerning women.
 

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The wrong people don't know about this forum and it's too obscure to attract much attention.

I actually wonder how 4chan still exists, but I thank God that it does.

this day and age saying good morning to the lovely girl get you in trouble lol
That's not something most normal people have to worry about, the kind of crazies who would be most likely to do that barely go outside.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It exists because of posts like this that make getting laid seem like it's some unconquerable mountain to climb when it's never been easier.

We have the guys crying they can't get laid and the guys who use these tips and tools to get laid more than ever. Pick what side you want to be on.

And yes, 95% of the time it's a choice.

Even if you are not great looking, you can still get laid. You'll just have to accept it will be with someone likely in your "looks range". Women do have much lower thresholds on looks than most guys believe but let not be delusional and think a guy who is a 2 is going to get a woman who is an 8. Likely not happening. If a guy is saying he can't get laid because he is unwilling to bang 4s and 5s then there isn't much we can do to help. People have to be realistic, game can only help poor looks so much.
 
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I wonder that myself as someone who used to browse this place back in the day. I mean the RSD Forums are gone and most other forums have gone by the wayside. Here is my reasoning for why it still exists:

1. The Black Pill and Incels with a ton of time on their hands have not found this forum yet. While these guys have often overrun other communities with their psychotic mindsets and run them to the ground like the locusts they are, this one has stayed under the radar and mods have thankfully cracked down hard and fast.

2. No central figure runs this forum, it is a collective forum for getting laid. You look at a forum like Roosh's where everything that happened was sort just dependent on where he was in life and the place went from "where can I get laid easiest in the world" to "I love Jesus". This forum does not center around a figure or person, it centers around an idea.

3. This was never really a pickup forum or a PUA forum so whatever impacted PUA did not impact this place as much. It remained about getting good with women no matter what was the ideal school of thought at the time.

4. It has kind of been a revolving door of users instead of needing users to keep it afloat. Good Looking Loser's forum relied on a handful of slayers to do well to keep the forum going. Once those guys left and Chris left, the forum died. This forum has always been a revolving door of users who come and go for the most part.

5. Moderation here is done almost perfectly. Mods ban stupidity and toxic content but they allow healthy debates to happen. In other forums, someone can simply make an accusation about someone and run that person out of the forum or silence them. Here, mods crack down on that sort of nonsense so people can freely speak their minds and contribute entertaining content.
 

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I wonder that myself as someone who used to browse this place back in the day. I mean the RSD Forums are gone and most other forums have gone by the wayside. Here is my reasoning for why it still exists:

1. The Black Pill and Incels with a ton of time on their hands have not found this forum yet. While these guys have often overrun other communities with their psychotic mindsets and run them to the ground like the locusts they are, this one has stayed under the radar and mods have thankfully cracked down hard and fast.

2. No central figure runs this forum, it is a collective forum for getting laid. You look at a forum like Roosh's where everything that happened was sort just dependent on where he was in life and the place went from "where can I get laid easiest in the world" to "I love Jesus". This forum does not center around a figure or person, it centers around an idea.

3. This was never really a pickup forum or a PUA forum so whatever impacted PUA did not impact this place as much. It remained about getting good with women no matter what was the ideal school of thought at the time.

4. It has kind of been a revolving door of users instead of needing users to keep it afloat. Good Looking Loser's forum relied on a handful of slayers to do well to keep the forum going. Once those guys left and Chris left, the forum died. This forum has always been a revolving door of users who come and go for the most part.

5. Moderation here is done almost perfectly. Mods ban stupidity and toxic content but they allow healthy debates to happen. In other forums, someone can simply make an accusation about someone and run that person out of the forum or silence them. Here, mods crack down on that sort of nonsense so people can freely speak their minds and contribute entertaining content.
Oh, I don't know about that...we have several black pill incel posters who are very active and spend lots of time talking about how life isn't fair and how they can't get laid and how it's impossible these days.

Funny how if they took some of that time and energy and channel it into REAL(key concept...REAL not FAKE) self-improvement they would probably start seeing much better results but it's far easier to cry and complain than do any real work on themselves and take a look in the mirror.
 

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2. No central figure runs this forum, it is a collective forum for getting laid. You look at a forum like Roosh's where everything that happened was sort just dependent on where he was in life and the place went from "where can I get laid easiest in the world" to "I love Jesus". This forum does not center around a figure or person, it centers around an idea.
Roosh's Forum was solid when it was a seducer's forum.

3. This was never really a pickup forum or a PUA forum so whatever impacted PUA did not impact this place as much. It remained about getting good with women no matter what was the ideal school of thought at the time.

4. It has kind of been a revolving door of users instead of needing users to keep it afloat. This forum has always been a revolving door of users who come and go for the most part..
Rollo Tomassi is a perfect example of Point 3. He made a name for himself on SoSuave. I read "The Rational Male". "The Rational Male" is not a pickup guide, though attraction and seduction are discussed in it. "Mystery Method" is a pickup guide.

Multiple users need to keep a place afloat.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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1. It makes the owner money due to traffic/book sales affiliation
2. Mods aren't too harsh so you can say pretty much what you like and not feel censored
3. Mods ban/time out trolls/bad behaviour and lock threads to keep toxicity down
4. Every man regardless of how skilled/handsome is going to have issues with women or at the very least seek some advice on a situation, so constant new members
5. The purpose of the forum will never change, the issues with women will always be there

I'm really not sure why this forum would ever close or why that would surprise you?
 

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The game keeps changing.
 

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I started out on the TRP subreddit, but right before it got quarantined, the content really started going downhill and it got overrun with black pill content. (I think this is before black pill was a word.)

This forum seems to be a smaller, more tight-knit bunch.
 

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Eh, I think old timers like Captain Kirk & I hang around for the same reasons that old farts at the hip neighborhood bar do - it's convenient, familiar, and everyone knows you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I started out on the TRP subreddit, but right before it got quarantined, the content really started going downhill and it got overrun with black pill content. (I think this is before black pill was a word.)

This forum seems to be a smaller, more tight-knit bunch.
I think it's because there is a certain website where the black pillers that have thrown in the towel can go, leaving those of us that still have hope.
 

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I wonder that myself as someone who used to browse this place back in the day. I mean the RSD Forums are gone and most other forums have gone by the wayside. Here is my reasoning for why it still exists:

1. The Black Pill and Incels with a ton of time on their hands have not found this forum yet. While these guys have often overrun other communities with their psychotic mindsets and run them to the ground like the locusts they are, this one has stayed under the radar and mods have thankfully cracked down hard and fast.
Oh, I think they had found this place, but once they had figured out that Game is only a multiplier and that x * 0 = 0, they moved on. Also, the development of live sextertainment like Chaturbate made it easier to make the decision.
 

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It exists because of posts like this that make getting laid seem like it's some unconquerable mountain to climb when it's never been easier.

We have the guys crying they can't get laid and the guys who use these tips and tools to get laid more than ever. Pick what side you want to be on.

And yes, 95% of the time it's a choice.

Even if you are not great looking, you can still get laid. You'll just have to accept it will be with someone likely in your "looks range". Women do have much lower thresholds on looks than most guys believe but let not be delusional and think a guy who is a 2 is going to get a woman who is an 8. Likely not happening. If a guy is saying he can't get laid because he is unwilling to bang 4s and 5s then there isn't much we can do to help. People have to be realistic, game can only help poor looks so much.
So what you're saying is that a PUA needs to go for a looksmatch in which he can slay at a high rate. I hate to break it to you, but that looksmatch point for most men is women in the triple digits of kg. :mad: Who the h3ll can feel good about porking a porker?
 
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