"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How is the best way to handle this?

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I'm going to run for my school's senior student council or ASB and there's this girl that has run before. I was asking her the guidelines and inappropriate things that are against the rules and she keeps asking me why, I haven't told her I'm running yet.

What is the best way to C&F this to a friend? All I can think of is Why not? Or Why does it matter? But those are stupid. Thanks guys!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Why is she checking up on you?

" I haven't told her I'm running yet"



"Somebody! (her) must be in love with me, slow down and stop checking up on me."

or you can say treat her like she's in the Army and bust on her.

"No 'sir', I didn't feel like telling you 'sir', so go back over 'there' and stop asking me crazy questions 'sir' *salute*"
 
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I guess she's curious as to why I'm asking her about the guidelines. Basically, I'm not planning on telling her anytime soon. Like, the military idea is good, but I want to build more mystery.
 
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All girls are always curious..and they will always be different from us.
 
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I have some advice on this. If you want to win, don't tell her jack diddly sh1t. If you want to win, do not get too close to her. It's surprising how manipulative and self-centered girls can be. I learned this the hard way...

...but I still won. haha :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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