"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How is the best way to handle this?

Shapoopie

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I'm going to run for my school's senior student council or ASB and there's this girl that has run before. I was asking her the guidelines and inappropriate things that are against the rules and she keeps asking me why, I haven't told her I'm running yet.

What is the best way to C&F this to a friend? All I can think of is Why not? Or Why does it matter? But those are stupid. Thanks guys!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJ4Real

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Why is she checking up on you?

" I haven't told her I'm running yet"



"Somebody! (her) must be in love with me, slow down and stop checking up on me."

or you can say treat her like she's in the Army and bust on her.

"No 'sir', I didn't feel like telling you 'sir', so go back over 'there' and stop asking me crazy questions 'sir' *salute*"
 

Shapoopie

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I guess she's curious as to why I'm asking her about the guidelines. Basically, I'm not planning on telling her anytime soon. Like, the military idea is good, but I want to build more mystery.
 

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All girls are always curious..and they will always be different from us.
 

Potbelly

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I have some advice on this. If you want to win, don't tell her jack diddly sh1t. If you want to win, do not get too close to her. It's surprising how manipulative and self-centered girls can be. I learned this the hard way...

...but I still won. haha :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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