"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How is the best way to handle this?

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I'm going to run for my school's senior student council or ASB and there's this girl that has run before. I was asking her the guidelines and inappropriate things that are against the rules and she keeps asking me why, I haven't told her I'm running yet.

What is the best way to C&F this to a friend? All I can think of is Why not? Or Why does it matter? But those are stupid. Thanks guys!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why is she checking up on you?

" I haven't told her I'm running yet"



"Somebody! (her) must be in love with me, slow down and stop checking up on me."

or you can say treat her like she's in the Army and bust on her.

"No 'sir', I didn't feel like telling you 'sir', so go back over 'there' and stop asking me crazy questions 'sir' *salute*"
 
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I guess she's curious as to why I'm asking her about the guidelines. Basically, I'm not planning on telling her anytime soon. Like, the military idea is good, but I want to build more mystery.
 
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All girls are always curious..and they will always be different from us.
 
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I have some advice on this. If you want to win, don't tell her jack diddly sh1t. If you want to win, do not get too close to her. It's surprising how manipulative and self-centered girls can be. I learned this the hard way...

...but I still won. haha :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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