How in God's name do you feel secure and comfortable if.....

[stuka1939]

You are dating a girl who is "noticeably" better looking than you.

I know all this DJ stuff says looks don't matter that much and you may be right. However, how does a man NOT feel uncomfortable when MOST other people are noticing you are a mismatched couple or when better looking guys (in their feeling superior to you) will purposely hit on your girl in front of you.

I am NOT talking about me, but I guess other guys that I see who are overweight or have double chins, hook noses, etc.

These guys might be able to get an attractive woman based on confidence, but I don't think they would feel quite secure once they did.

For the purpose of OUR OWN mental-well being you are really better off dating a women close in your looks range.

Just a thought.

 

[ChrizZ]

You are dating a girl who is "noticeably" better looking than you.

I know all this DJ stuff says looks don't matter that much and you may be right. However, how does a man NOT feel uncomfortable when MOST other people are noticing you are a mismatched couple or when better looking guys (in their feeling superior to you) will purposely hit on your girl in front of you.

I am NOT talking about me, but I guess other guys that I see who are overweight or have double chins, hook noses, etc.

These guys might be able to get an attractive woman based on confidence, but I don't think they would feel quite secure once they did.

For the purpose of OUR OWN mental-well being you are really better off dating a women close in your looks range.

Just a thought.

Someone finally ban this clown...

 

[Gubby]

I doubt a guy could really get a girl if he wouldn't feel comfortable with her. At least not reliably. You gotta REALLY think you are the sh'it.

 

[stuka1939]

Someone finally ban this clown...

haha, truth hurts doesn't it?

You must be one of those not so handsome guys.

 

[ChrizZ]

For the purpose of OUR OWN mental-well being you are really better off dating a women close in your looks range.

I would, but those HB10s can be really b!tchy sometimes...

 

[azanon]

You are dating a girl who is "noticeably" better looking than you.

I know all this DJ stuff says looks don't matter that much and you may be right. However, how does a man NOT feel uncomfortable when MOST other people are noticing you are a mismatched couple or when better looking guys (in their feeling superior to you) will purposely hit on your girl in front of you.

I am NOT talking about me, but I guess other guys that I see who are overweight or have double chins, hook noses, etc.

These guys might be able to get an attractive woman based on confidence, but I don't think they would feel quite secure once they did.

For the purpose of OUR OWN mental-well being you are really better off dating a women close in your looks range.

Just a thought.

I should be able to answer your question with this simple quote that I love:

“Size matters not, ... Look at me. Judge me by size, do you?” - Master Yoda

Dude there's so much more to a man than his looks, I haven't near the energy this time at night (for me) to write a dissertation on the myriad of other attributes that can make a man desirable. You did list "confidence". One down; about 1000 to go!

 

[ready123]

because those guys have genuine self-esteem and don't get ridiculously insecure about how unsymmetric their face is

have you guys ever noticed that what makes an insecurity an insecurity is the fact you openly treat it as such? people are mirrors and will respond to you in the way you assume they'll respond to you. all you guys hung up over your looks would improve 100 times fold if you could let go of that limiting belief

as opposed to posting about it everyday and how the world sucks because you're short (meanwhile there are guys that are half a foot shorter than you getting laid)

get over it already

 

[BMX]

WHAT? STUK DAT!

Must you always post controversially? And consistently place woman on pedestals?

 

[Rhoto]

You are dating a girl who is "noticeably" better looking than you.

That's how.

 

[SinJester]

Dude your got problems.

These guys aren't gonna keep the girl if they are insecure about it so if they manage to keep her they obviously don't give a fck.

If your thinking like that you place way to much value on looks and have your own inner problems you need to work out before you even think about getting a girl.

I would, but those HB10s can be really b!tchy sometimes...

Abam bam psss

 

[Desdinova]

Jesus fvcking Christ, can't you put all your goddam 'looks' posts into one thread?

CLOSED.