"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How important is having money?

gengx2

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I just want to know do you need to be pretty financially stable to have a good dating life? I'm not that well off, in fact i'm pretty much broke. I have so many things to pay for and by the fall my money situation won't get any better. But i still want to date. So how important is it to have cash when trying to date the ladies?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJ-TrickY

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Its always nice to have extra cash, but if your pretty much broke, there are other things you can do that cost just a bit, if not nth. Go to the park or something of the sort
 

Morphiex

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having some money is really good having alot of money isent neccesary to have a stable dating life... in these days u cant even take a **** without having to pay money....
 

NYC Dude

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It's always nice to have a few extra dollars so that you can do whatever you really want to do. However, that is not to say money is necessary, nor that if you have money you should spend it all. It helps, but it isn't as important as it seems to be.
 

08aisaac

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well the way I make money is that I found something I really am good at and I do freelance work. Like I am awesome at building and repairing computers so I do that on the side and it is like $50 an hour plus parts. I don't have any certifications or anything and still I make money. Just learn a skill and advertise. My mom advertises at her work and once word starts getting around then you will get tons of customers. Of course it is more of a career. lol

Plus learning the secrets of saving money. Listen to Dave Ramsey. Ithink that is his name. Google him
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jerky Boi

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Advantages of getting a job:

1. No matter what you're doing, people will look up to you simply because you work.
2. You'll get a check every one or two weeks.( In some cases, a month).
3. You can save up for something you really want.
4. Extra spending money every day.
5. Gives you something to do and occupy yourself with during the day.
6. Women love men with jobs and careers. ;)

Why not? :D
 
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