I just want to know do you need to be pretty financially stable to have a good dating life? I'm not that well off, in fact i'm pretty much broke. I have so many things to pay for and by the fall my money situation won't get any better. But i still want to date. So how important is it to have cash when trying to date the ladies?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How important is having money?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NYC Dude
Master Don Juan
It's always nice to have a few extra dollars so that you can do whatever you really want to do. However, that is not to say money is necessary, nor that if you have money you should spend it all. It helps, but it isn't as important as it seems to be.
well the way I make money is that I found something I really am good at and I do freelance work. Like I am awesome at building and repairing computers so I do that on the side and it is like $50 an hour plus parts. I don't have any certifications or anything and still I make money. Just learn a skill and advertise. My mom advertises at her work and once word starts getting around then you will get tons of customers. Of course it is more of a career. lol
Plus learning the secrets of saving money. Listen to Dave Ramsey. Ithink that is his name. Google him
Plus learning the secrets of saving money. Listen to Dave Ramsey. Ithink that is his name. Google him
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Advantages of getting a job:
1. No matter what you're doing, people will look up to you simply because you work.
2. You'll get a check every one or two weeks.( In some cases, a month).
3. You can save up for something you really want.
4. Extra spending money every day.
5. Gives you something to do and occupy yourself with during the day.
6. Women love men with jobs and careers.
Why not?
1. No matter what you're doing, people will look up to you simply because you work.
2. You'll get a check every one or two weeks.( In some cases, a month).
3. You can save up for something you really want.
4. Extra spending money every day.
5. Gives you something to do and occupy yourself with during the day.
6. Women love men with jobs and careers.
Why not?