I just want to know do you need to be pretty financially stable to have a good dating life? I'm not that well off, in fact i'm pretty much broke. I have so many things to pay for and by the fall my money situation won't get any better. But i still want to date. So how important is it to have cash when trying to date the ladies?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How important is having money?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Master Don Juan
It's always nice to have a few extra dollars so that you can do whatever you really want to do. However, that is not to say money is necessary, nor that if you have money you should spend it all. It helps, but it isn't as important as it seems to be.
well the way I make money is that I found something I really am good at and I do freelance work. Like I am awesome at building and repairing computers so I do that on the side and it is like $50 an hour plus parts. I don't have any certifications or anything and still I make money. Just learn a skill and advertise. My mom advertises at her work and once word starts getting around then you will get tons of customers. Of course it is more of a career. lol
Plus learning the secrets of saving money. Listen to Dave Ramsey. Ithink that is his name. Google him
Plus learning the secrets of saving money. Listen to Dave Ramsey. Ithink that is his name. Google him
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Advantages of getting a job:
1. No matter what you're doing, people will look up to you simply because you work.
2. You'll get a check every one or two weeks.( In some cases, a month).
3. You can save up for something you really want.
4. Extra spending money every day.
5. Gives you something to do and occupy yourself with during the day.
6. Women love men with jobs and careers.
Why not?
1. No matter what you're doing, people will look up to you simply because you work.
2. You'll get a check every one or two weeks.( In some cases, a month).
3. You can save up for something you really want.
4. Extra spending money every day.
5. Gives you something to do and occupy yourself with during the day.
6. Women love men with jobs and careers.
Why not?