"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How important is having money?

gengx2

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I just want to know do you need to be pretty financially stable to have a good dating life? I'm not that well off, in fact i'm pretty much broke. I have so many things to pay for and by the fall my money situation won't get any better. But i still want to date. So how important is it to have cash when trying to date the ladies?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ-TrickY

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Its always nice to have extra cash, but if your pretty much broke, there are other things you can do that cost just a bit, if not nth. Go to the park or something of the sort
 

Morphiex

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having some money is really good having alot of money isent neccesary to have a stable dating life... in these days u cant even take a **** without having to pay money....
 

NYC Dude

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It's always nice to have a few extra dollars so that you can do whatever you really want to do. However, that is not to say money is necessary, nor that if you have money you should spend it all. It helps, but it isn't as important as it seems to be.
 

08aisaac

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well the way I make money is that I found something I really am good at and I do freelance work. Like I am awesome at building and repairing computers so I do that on the side and it is like $50 an hour plus parts. I don't have any certifications or anything and still I make money. Just learn a skill and advertise. My mom advertises at her work and once word starts getting around then you will get tons of customers. Of course it is more of a career. lol

Plus learning the secrets of saving money. Listen to Dave Ramsey. Ithink that is his name. Google him
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jerky Boi

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Advantages of getting a job:

1. No matter what you're doing, people will look up to you simply because you work.
2. You'll get a check every one or two weeks.( In some cases, a month).
3. You can save up for something you really want.
4. Extra spending money every day.
5. Gives you something to do and occupy yourself with during the day.
6. Women love men with jobs and careers. ;)

Why not? :D
 
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