"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How important is face over body?

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IMO the good looking dude who is chubby, skinny, short, avergae build will alwyas get more girls attention?!?!?

However, I would say if you are ugly or just average building a great body can get you girls and especially women over 25 quite easily. Especially as many dudes over 25-30 are now getting a bit chuby out off shape etc..

I think 16-20 face is no.1?!?!? 30+ 0lder women are keen on buff toned bodies, sign off virtily and high testosterone!!

Overall though I think haveing a good looking face would be better, even with an average body and minimal focus od diet and training you can get girls.

whereas guy with the body has to train and diet hard so hes woring for the pu$$$y the good looking guy dont need do no work.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I think 16-20 face is no.1?!?!? 30+ 0lder women are keen on buff toned bodies, sign off virtily and high testosterone!!
30+ women are keen on guys with lots of money or rent-a-daddies to take care of their kids.
 

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It's a combination of everything that's being taken into account. It's pointless to argue wheather face or body is more important. You should have it all, you should be leading the competition and improving where it needs it. The other thing is that personality is connected to the way you look, the confidence, the swag, the general level of hapiness and satisfaction, your outlook. You can't separate the body from the soul.
 
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PapiChulo said:
It's a combination of everything that's being taken into account. It's pointless to argue wheather face or body is more important. You should have it all, you should be leading the competition and improving where it needs it. The other thing is that personality is connected to the way you look, the confidence, the swag, the general level of hapiness and satisfaction, your outlook. You can't separate the body from the soul.
thats why, gym+diet+good body= testosterone+happy chemicals= confidence+self esteem etc


Thats why Gym is good even if you butt ugly lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PapiChulo said:
It's a combination of everything that's being taken into account. It's pointless to argue wheather face or body is more important. You should have it all, you should be leading the competition and improving where it needs it. The other thing is that personality is connected to the way you look, the confidence, the swag, the general level of hapiness and satisfaction, your outlook. You can't separate the body from the soul.
Wrong topic but right post. Too many guys try to be lazy & just focus on aspect without the others. You've got to put all the pieces to the puzzle(or as many as your individual existence gives you).
 

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I think you should focus on your personality before you focus on your physical qualities.
Yep. My guess is that you aren't setting the world on fire with people when talking to them djdj. I bet "creepy" and "annoying" get thrown around alot in your presence. Work on that before you worry about being good looking. Believe me it will help more in life.
 
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