"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How important is face over body?

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IMO the good looking dude who is chubby, skinny, short, avergae build will alwyas get more girls attention?!?!?

However, I would say if you are ugly or just average building a great body can get you girls and especially women over 25 quite easily. Especially as many dudes over 25-30 are now getting a bit chuby out off shape etc..

I think 16-20 face is no.1?!?!? 30+ 0lder women are keen on buff toned bodies, sign off virtily and high testosterone!!

Overall though I think haveing a good looking face would be better, even with an average body and minimal focus od diet and training you can get girls.

whereas guy with the body has to train and diet hard so hes woring for the pu$$$y the good looking guy dont need do no work.



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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I think 16-20 face is no.1?!?!? 30+ 0lder women are keen on buff toned bodies, sign off virtily and high testosterone!!
30+ women are keen on guys with lots of money or rent-a-daddies to take care of their kids.
 

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It's a combination of everything that's being taken into account. It's pointless to argue wheather face or body is more important. You should have it all, you should be leading the competition and improving where it needs it. The other thing is that personality is connected to the way you look, the confidence, the swag, the general level of hapiness and satisfaction, your outlook. You can't separate the body from the soul.
 
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PapiChulo said:
It's a combination of everything that's being taken into account. It's pointless to argue wheather face or body is more important. You should have it all, you should be leading the competition and improving where it needs it. The other thing is that personality is connected to the way you look, the confidence, the swag, the general level of hapiness and satisfaction, your outlook. You can't separate the body from the soul.
thats why, gym+diet+good body= testosterone+happy chemicals= confidence+self esteem etc


Thats why Gym is good even if you butt ugly lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PapiChulo said:
It's a combination of everything that's being taken into account. It's pointless to argue wheather face or body is more important. You should have it all, you should be leading the competition and improving where it needs it. The other thing is that personality is connected to the way you look, the confidence, the swag, the general level of hapiness and satisfaction, your outlook. You can't separate the body from the soul.
Wrong topic but right post. Too many guys try to be lazy & just focus on aspect without the others. You've got to put all the pieces to the puzzle(or as many as your individual existence gives you).
 

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I think you should focus on your personality before you focus on your physical qualities.
Yep. My guess is that you aren't setting the world on fire with people when talking to them djdj. I bet "creepy" and "annoying" get thrown around alot in your presence. Work on that before you worry about being good looking. Believe me it will help more in life.
 
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