"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How I turned a negative in to a very powerfull positive.

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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well, we all know the history... my gf went to Italy, cheated, came back, told me about it, I decided to do the same.

OK.

but every time I heard something about Italy I felt bad, really loser feeling, felt like kicking some azz around!:mad:
My desire was to go kill all the italian guys, because of theis latin lover poser thing.. the heart breakers.. the bad DJs of Europe... aaahhhh felt bad...


BUT!!
the little magic trick I did that changed everything.

Since I have italian citizenship.. Im italian too!!!!! I am a latin lover poser .. heart breaker.. bad DJ from Europe!!!

ahahhaha I feel much more motivated and confident knowing this, my aproach on girls changed a lot! I feel gooooood baby.

You see, its a perspective thing.
;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It totally is White Shark, and you've got to keep reminding yourself all the time and building up that self image.
 

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I'm the one who cheated with your girl, yes, that's me. Don't get pissed off 'cause we got that natural latin love, nothing poser about it. :cool:
 

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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Originally posted by m4a1
I'm the one who cheated with your girl, yes, that's me. Don't get pissed off 'cause we got that natural latin love, nothing poser about it. :cool:
Im not pissed, by the way, if your sister is pregnant, look for THIAGO BRAZIL contribution on the sosuave bible, thats me, Ive been around your garden, messed around, A LOT! :cool: :cool:
 

m4a1

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I don't have any sisters. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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