"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How I turned a negative in to a very powerfull positive.

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well, we all know the history... my gf went to Italy, cheated, came back, told me about it, I decided to do the same.

OK.

but every time I heard something about Italy I felt bad, really loser feeling, felt like kicking some azz around!:mad:
My desire was to go kill all the italian guys, because of theis latin lover poser thing.. the heart breakers.. the bad DJs of Europe... aaahhhh felt bad...


BUT!!
the little magic trick I did that changed everything.

Since I have italian citizenship.. Im italian too!!!!! I am a latin lover poser .. heart breaker.. bad DJ from Europe!!!

ahahhaha I feel much more motivated and confident knowing this, my aproach on girls changed a lot! I feel gooooood baby.

You see, its a perspective thing.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It totally is White Shark, and you've got to keep reminding yourself all the time and building up that self image.
 
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I'm the one who cheated with your girl, yes, that's me. Don't get pissed off 'cause we got that natural latin love, nothing poser about it. :cool:
 
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Originally posted by m4a1
I'm the one who cheated with your girl, yes, that's me. Don't get pissed off 'cause we got that natural latin love, nothing poser about it. :cool:
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Im not pissed, by the way, if your sister is pregnant, look for THIAGO BRAZIL contribution on the sosuave bible, thats me, Ive been around your garden, messed around, A LOT! :cool: :cool:
 
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I don't have any sisters. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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