"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How I turned a negative in to a very powerfull positive.

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GREAT WHITE SHARK

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well, we all know the history... my gf went to Italy, cheated, came back, told me about it, I decided to do the same.

OK.

but every time I heard something about Italy I felt bad, really loser feeling, felt like kicking some azz around!:mad:
My desire was to go kill all the italian guys, because of theis latin lover poser thing.. the heart breakers.. the bad DJs of Europe... aaahhhh felt bad...


BUT!!
the little magic trick I did that changed everything.

Since I have italian citizenship.. Im italian too!!!!! I am a latin lover poser .. heart breaker.. bad DJ from Europe!!!

ahahhaha I feel much more motivated and confident knowing this, my aproach on girls changed a lot! I feel gooooood baby.

You see, its a perspective thing.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It totally is White Shark, and you've got to keep reminding yourself all the time and building up that self image.
 
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I'm the one who cheated with your girl, yes, that's me. Don't get pissed off 'cause we got that natural latin love, nothing poser about it. :cool:
 
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Originally posted by m4a1
I'm the one who cheated with your girl, yes, that's me. Don't get pissed off 'cause we got that natural latin love, nothing poser about it. :cool:
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Im not pissed, by the way, if your sister is pregnant, look for THIAGO BRAZIL contribution on the sosuave bible, thats me, Ive been around your garden, messed around, A LOT! :cool: :cool:
 
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I don't have any sisters. :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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